People Problems

Is someone important to you withholding a key resource or are you constantly suffering their disapproval? That is a personal roadblock. You lack the support of key people in your life and they are actively preventing you from reaching your goals.

Actions you can take:

Negotiate: The book Crucial Conversations and Getting to Yes could be helpful references

Alternative aid and support: Temporarily distancing yourself while in this process and seek guidance from experts, counselors or supportive friends and family

Verify your approach and check your assumptions: Poll some unbiased third party who are experts about your area to see if they have similar objections. Make sure you are right before you vilify someone close to you.

Does pursuing your passion feel like you against the world?

Would you be foolish or brave to push forward? This one is tough. On one hand, people defy odds and achieve what others thought impossible. On the other, the odds seemed stacked against you. How much do you want it? Is this the only option? Ultimately, it comes down to what kind of life you want to create. Talk to a career coach or a trusted advisor.

The disapproval of people close to you can easily shake your confidence. Consulting with experts helps put context around your circumstances. Talk to them if you think there is a chance to achieve a better understanding. Distance yourself from negative influences while you consider whether to pursue your passion. Find like-minded people to support you in pursuing your goals. Take your time making important decisions and remember to always put your personal well being first.